Yes, you can totally pull these off.
So you’ve mastered missionary and and done it a bazillion times already. It may even be your go-to by now. There’s nothing wrong with that (there’s a reason so many people are into it), but if you’ve got the urge to switch things up, you’re not alone.
Remember: Experimentation and discovery are important parts of a healthy sex life, “Our bodies are constantly changing,The things that we did when we were younger may not work for us in the same way as when we’re older.”
This means that our bodies’ wants, desires, and abilities will evolve naturally over time. “And we want to make sure that we’re able to take full advantage of that.
The next time you’re about to have sex, instead of resorting to your go-to moves, consider whipping out one of these crazy-or as we like to think about them, upgraded-sex positions.
If you’re into something more acrobatic, you can give the Butter Churner or the Standing Wheelbarrow a try. Or if you want a little more support during your next rendezvous, ask your partner to have sex Table-Top style. And if you want a full sensory experience, you’re going to want to try the Scoop Me Up, so that your S.O. can sneak in some neck kisses and caressing during sex. Trust: These positions will elevate your sex game and result in the toe-curling, back-arching orgasm you’re looking for.
Shoutout to back support. If you want a position that’s pleasurable and comfy, this one’s a great option, says Oriowo. But don’t take the level of comfort to mean the position is boring.”It’s great for viewing pleasure, especially if you do it in front of a mirror, This way, you get to watch yourself getting off.
Do it:Your partner sits on the edge of the bed and you sit on them, facing away.
Being eye-to-eye with your partner while making each other feel good is key for intimacy. “And there’s that chest-to-chest aspect, as well” that brings it up a notch. The best part? Once you’ve mastered this position in private, you can take it for a spin outdoors. “Maybe one day you can do this one with some clothes on in places where you’re trying to look discreet,”
Do it: You straddle them, wrapping your legs around their body (they keep their knees unlocked and thighs spread slightly). They stand and support you in their arms. You can start in a seated position and have them pick you up without disengaging. (Or for the truly bold, you can hop aboard from standing position!)
“Its believed that doggy style is always in style, The key to making it less basic? Incorporate some back play. People don’t realize how hypersensitive they are on their back. So the next time you’re doing it doggy style, have your partner glide a feather along your back during penetration. It’s guaranteed to hype up the sensation. And as bonus-this position guarantees easy hair access. “If you’re looking for pressure but not pain, grab from the root. And if you’re looking for a bit more pain in that pleasure, grab from the end.
Do it: Get on all fours, then have your partner kneel behind you, with their upper body straight up or slightly draped over you (ya know, like a humping dog).
Scoop Me Up
Okay, okay, so this is basically spoon sex. But don’t underestimate the position. There’s a few easy ways to turn up the heat-starting with ear and neck play. ” Sex should be a full sensory experience wherever possible.” This position allows your partner to play into your ear and neck sensitivity (via kissing or whispering) while they’re scooping you up and holding you close. Three words: Full body access.
Do it: Both of you lie on your sides, facing the same direction. You bring your knees up slightly while your partner slides up behind your pelvis and enters you from behind.
The Good Ex
There’s this intense coming together that creates serious intimacy, Plus, it’s an ideal position to give your clitoris the attention it deserves by reaching down with your free hands and pleasuring yourself at the same time.
Do it: Sit on the bed facing each other with legs forward. Lift your partner’s right leg over your left and lift your right leg over their left. Come together so they can enter you. Now both of you lie back, your legs forming an X. Slow, leisurely gyrations replace thrusting.
“If you’re really into yoga, this a great position. This seemingly weird sex position lets your partner penetrate even deeper (which can be great if your S.O. has a smaller penis or is using a strap on). Too make it a little comfier, put a pillow beneath your shoulders.
Do it: Lie on your back with your legs raised and folded over so that your ankles are on either side of your head, while your partner squats and penetrates you.
The Pretzel Dip
Despite what the name suggests, there’s no food involved in this freaky sex position (although, if you’re into that, why not up the crazy factor?). Otherwise, this position allows for deep, powerful thrusts, but at a sideways angle that feels totally different and hot. It’s a really intimate position. “You have a lot of eye contact and you’re literally interwoven.” It’s great for couples who are looking for more depth of connection in addition to the physical stuff.
Do it: As your partner is kneeling over you, wrap one leg around their waist while the other leg rests under their butt.
Since you’re both controlling the movements, you can rock back and forth to get into a satisfying rhythm that works for the both of you. Truth be told, getting into this position might require some flexibility considering all that leg-over-leg action and hip spreading, but once you’re there you can both lean back and let your pelvises put in work.
Do it: Sure, it resembles the crab walk, but in a crazy-sexy way. Your pelvis should be above his while your legs bend to the side of his body.
“This is a great position that’s both sexy and relaxing.” Your partner gets to take the reins with this one, and they’ll be rewarded with an awesome view of your body-especially your face. (Wild, yet intimate-does it really get better than that?) Plus, your hands are free to explore your other erogenous zones.
Do it: If you like the Spoon sex position, you’ll love the Spork. Instead of lying on your sides, you’ll stay flat on your back while your partner positions their body at a 90-degree angle in between your legs.
Don’t let the innocent name fool you-this sex position will definitely make you feel totally naughty. its recommended for a partner with a particularly flexible penis or if you’re planning on incorporating some other toys (think: the partner on top reaching down with a dildo in hand). Plus, from this lying position, you have easy access to fondle your partner’s erogenous zones. Not to mention, your partner’s pelvis is perfectly positioned to grind against your clit. Maybe try adding a little sexy butt massage to the mix, too.
Do it: This is basically missionary position with an upside-down twist. Lie on your back and have your partner straddle you facing away. Lift your legs and wrap them around their back to elevate your pelvis so they can enter you. Grab your partner’s butt to help them slide up and back.
Warning: This sex position is not for beginners! Think of this as downward dog with even better benefits-the deep-thrusting, G-spot hitting kind. Be warned that it does require some yogi talent and shoulder strength to maintain this athletic position. But even if you’re only able to stay in this position for a little bit, it’ll definitely be an experience you’ll remember. If the pressure on your arms gets to be too much, take some of the pressure off by resting your upper body on the edge of the bed or a table.
Do it: Get into the downward dog yoga position, then have your partner sit at the end of a bed, and grab your legs so you can wrap them around their waist.
Due to the nature of this position, you’ll feel more of your partner’s body in motion. Plus, you can always reach down to offer a little butt or leg massage while your S.O. thrusts. Pro tip: This is another great position if you have a partner with a flexible penis or you’re using a dildo for the night. It also gives the woman the chance to feel new sensations on different parts of her vaginal wall.
Do it: So you’re probably thinking, “wait…how?” But here’s how this one’s done: Have your partner enter you from missionary position, then slide their legs and chest off your body so their limbs form an “X” with yours.
If you want a good view of each other’s bodies, consider adding this one to tonight’s activity list. “This is definitely a more intimate face-to-face position.If your partner has a large penis, this position allows you to really control the depth. Want to heat things up? Lean back farther to help this position really hit home, and have your partner rub your clit at the same time. Blended orgasm, anyone?
Do it: Have your partner sit with their legs straight, and then you sit on top of them with bent knees over their thighs. Then, you both lean back and let the pleasure commence.
This one is recommended taking to the kitchen counter. “It’s great position if you’re less athletic but still wants to be varied and kinky with intercourse,” she says. This crazy sex position puts you two at the same level (which is especially great if you’re different heights). Plus it’s perfect for that I-need-you-right-this-second sexy quickie.
Do it: Hop onto your bed, dining table, or really any surface you happen to be near in the heat of the moment. Then, bring your knees together and twist to one side. Have your partner enter you from this position.
This position will be amazing if your partner has great flexibility and hip mobility, Skyler says. It’s a tighter experience for both you and your partner, plus it adds a sexy vantage point (do it by a mirror if you want to watch!)
Do it: Such a small modification can make a crazy impact. Lie down in missionary with your partner on their knees, leaning back onto their heels. Raise one leg up against their chest while they enter you.
Stand And Deliver
Because sometimes the bed is just too far away…especially if you’re both incredibly raring to go. This is a great option for standing sex because it offers a little more balance. Plus it’ll allow your partner to give you a deeper sexual experience, especially if they have a smaller penis since your legs will be closed making penetration feel fuller, Skyler says. Major sensation alert.
Do it: Both of you are standing. Bend over and reach toward your shins or toes while your partner enters you from behind.